Dear Dr. Mimi — Conflicted

Dear Dr. Mimi,
I have been having some issues with a coworker of mine. I don’t want it to get in the way of work. How should I handle it?
—Conflicted

Dear Overwhelmed,
If you have a problem with a coworker, stay calm and plan what you are going to say. After you share your thoughts, listen to their side. Focus on fixing the issue by sharing the behaviors that you would like to see. Setting clear boundaries and working together to find a fair solution can make the workplace more positive for both of you.
—Dr. Mimi

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