Dear Dr. Mimi: Eavesdropping

Dear Dr. Mimi:
My department is relatively small, and I can see my manager’s office. Our company has had several rounds of budget cuts and layoffs. Last week, I saw a co-worker meet with the manager and leave looking unhappy. I haven’t asked about the conversation, but now I feel like I should be worried about my job. Please help!
—Eavesdropping

Dear Eavesdropping:

Because of your company’s current situation, I understand your concern. Chances are you’re probably not the only one who saw that conversation. It could have been anything. If you are really concerned, request a meeting with your manager and discuss your job security. This can be a worrisome time for employees, and you should suggest they be relatively translucent with you all during this time. Also, to secure your status, consider spending less time watching your manager and more time doing your work.
—Dr. Mimi


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