Dear Dr. Mimi – No Puppy Love

Dear Dr. Mimi:
We are working remotely and one of my co-workers has had a new puppy for about two months. When we have our virtual meetings, the puppy is always on her lap and distracting her. I love dogs, but our meetings end up being so much
longer now because of the puppy. Should I say something?
—No Puppy Love

Dear No Puppy:
Yes, if this has been going on for two months, it is time to say something. Let her know that because you like dogs, her having the puppy on the call is distracting to both of you. Let her know that you have noticed that the meetings are taking longer and that this has impacted your work. Ask that the puppy not be “in the picture” while you are
meeting.
—Dr. Mimi


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